Who is someone you have a parasocial relationship with? (Read on for more)

March 5, 2025 | Sparkle Wednesday

Thanks, Jonathan, for sparking this question!

The term "parasocial" describes a one-sided relationship where someone feels a deep connection to a famous figure or fictional character, even though the relationship isn’t mutual. Most of us have experienced this in some way—whether it’s with a musician, social media influencer, a celebrity, an author, or, like me, a podcaster.

Like many of you, I love listening to podcasts and have a few favorites. One of mine is "Awesome Etiquette," hosted by Lizzie Post and Dan Post Senning, the grandchildren of manners expert Emily Post. Okay, I admit it—it’s pretty darn geeky to listen to a podcast about manners.

Every week, I put it on while changing my sheets and tidying my bedroom—it’s become sort of a ritual. Over the years (yes, it’s been a long time), I’ve learned all about their lives—the books they’re working on (they have a new one about Business Etiquette - can’t wait!), updates on Dan’s kids, their latest sledding party, whether Lizzie has been running lately, and glimpses into their snowy Vermont homes. I feel like I genuinely know them… yet they have no idea I exist. I’ve never even submitted a question!

Side note: As I’m writing this, I’m realizing—maybe it’s time I finally send one in. And maybe I should tell them about my parasocial relationship with them. 😂

What about you? Who is someone you have a parasocial relationship with?