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Jul 12, 2023Liked by Lisa Hirst Carnes

This was a real date I went on and it was most certainly a dealbreaker: She asked what my salary was in the first 10 minutes and when I asked what she liked to eat she said Lunchables (to each their own but come on)

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Lol! That's so funny! Where did she come from?

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Jul 13, 2023Liked by Lisa Hirst Carnes

I believe a dating app! Not surprising..

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A real deal breaker for me would be asking your date if they like Music & they say no. Or Cooking, or travel but then I guess you can always teach someone new tricks. Or another instance was a real date who picked me up & had an eye ball in a locket around their neck. I couldn’t even ask!

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So, did you make eye contact with his necklace? Lol.

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Oh my no way. It was horrible wondering whose eye it was.

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Jul 13, 2023Liked by Lisa Hirst Carnes

Bad grammar. Dealbreaker.

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Jul 12, 2023Liked by Lisa Hirst Carnes

I couldn’t deal with a picky eater. I love to cook and enjoy making creative recipes. No to a smoker, too.

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There are lots of first-date deal breakers...where should I start? Major differences in political persuasion, never listens to music (c'mon), doesn't vote, too much cologne, doesn't like good food...wow, I guess I'm picky. Good thing I'm not looking!

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